Real Love is Easy. Who Knew. I guess you don't know until you know. Things is, real love is friendship, playing, companionship, laughs, lust and it is not "Authorative", judging or unkind. Real love is actually fun. You really want to be with that person and not just "have them" in your life. Or know they are out there somewhere. But you REALLY, actually like to be with them in your REAL LIFE. Loving another human being intimately should not be oppressive, and you should not find yourself wondering if they are into you. If you are not "with", giving your time, love and energy to someone who actually shows you that you matter to them, spends time with you and pays attention to the real you and actually likes that really you then LEAVE. Nothing is worth Staying if that is the case.   ~ Reverend Crystal Cox